In a world that often feels so deeply divided beyond repair, where disputes seem to escalate faster than resolutions can be found, many of us might be feeling a bit powerless. We see conflict on the news, in our neighborhoods, even in our own homes (raise your hand if you have competitive children). But, in the midst of all the uncertainty, confusion, and general horrifying moments ($5 for 12 eggs?!!), one thing remains entirely within our control: the good we choose to bring into the world. 

Service to others is not just a noble paragon—it is a tangible, impactful way to create positive change, one act at a time. Whether it is through volunteer work, mentorship, or a kind offer to listen to someone who just needs to talk, every act of kindness shifts the balance in favor of peace and acceptance. When I was a young lawyer, I always intended to volunteer, but the stress of billable hours and piling caseload distracted me long enough that I never prioritized it. Maturity and life experiences (hello motherhood!) have made me realize that service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on this earth.

I think this is why I enjoy mediation—it is not just about paddling our way to middle ground—it is about giving people the tools to craft their own resolutions, to restore relationships, and to move forward with dignity. It is about empowering individuals, families, and businesses to reclaim control over their own conflicts, rather than chancing fate with an overburdened and unpredictable court system. It is about creating lasting peace, not just slapping a band aid on a wound that probably needed stitches. 

This week, I had the privilege of conducting a pro bono mediation at the Dallas County Dispute Resolution Center, a place where people from all walks of life come to find solutions that courts are not guaranteed to provide. Here, we work to bring clarity to confusion, calm to contention, and resolution to seemingly impossible disputes. The pro bono work done within those walls is a testament to what is possible when people—the parties, their attorneys, and the volunteers come together in good faith, seeking solutions rather than victories.

I share this not as a call for recognition, but as an invitation to you. Each of us has a role to play in making our community stronger. Whether through volunteering, mentorship, advocacy for the less fortunate, or simple acts of kindness, we can all be a force for good. We cannot control the world’s chaos, but we can control the impact we make in our own little corner.

So, I encourage you: find your way to serve. If not today, then when? Do not wait like I did. Pay that earthly rent. Find a way to bring peace where there is discord, to offer guidance where there is confusion, to shine a light on the darkness, to give hope where there is despair, and to listen when someone just needs to talk to a friendly face. 

The world needs more peacemakers. Challenge Accepted. Are you in?